Has anyone who has been a victim of a narcissist made contact with the other victims of the narcissist? Did it help to confirm what you suspected about the narcissists?

I left my first known narcopath while pregnant with our second child after he found out we were inconveniently having a daughter and all satans hell fire 🔥 took off fanned by his “ honey monster” neckless huge mom ..

I have a doctorate FFS but in my defense have only had access to quora and personality “orders” such as Sophia Bell and a couple of other guys (House and Torbay who bring a kick in guts of laughter to replace my existential pain and Morningstar to soothe the forming bruise

I am very embarrassed to admit this is my third time suffering acute detoxing from trauma bonds … my evil triad !!…but bearing in mind I was pregnant with a toddler which is suffocating enough….first time round and never knew it would end !… but obviously never secured my battlements and to be fair the last one had a disability which somewhat mirrors NPD .. fuck the last three years I have been in a hall of mirrors !

What have I done wrong? How can I start over?

I long to join the properly recovered as they say in AA and 12 steps generally don’t think I have another recovery ❤️‍🩹 in me.

I am sitting in that really uncomfortable place unable to breathe, sleep or eat desperate for abusive X validation especially as it is not my first rodeo and so I had that ‘somewhat’uniquely reactive aggressive exit so guilt and shame is in the mix the need to apologise to my narcopath abusive bully for smacking him ( ‘ like a spastic’ in the chops infront of all his now flying gorillas !!!🦍… anyhow I digress …

She was with him a lot longer and a lot younger. It’s 7 years since she left him, since then she has married I presume 🤞 a normie and had kids…but she had come to realise suppressing the trauma of that relationship ( maybe maternity leave gave her time to process?) has not been successful and she had just sought out trauma counselling re “ it”

Can it be true that people know your name, not your story, they’ve heard what you’ve done, but not what you’ve been through, so take their opinions of you with a grain of salt?

this is a girl that could not complete the 1.5 M cross country course at school.. there is power in pain … you don’t have to wait for it to pass it can be transferred into doing energy … but obviously beneath well worn muscles left my inner loving child fragmented 😣

love ❤️ to all Bee 🐝 and especially to those who ‘ know’ you know xxx

Just did it over Facebook ( had to create an account) as got rid of old one . I missed her reply for almost a week. I am two weeks out only a week NC . She more than validated my experience .

If you get a chance to have sex with either Kajal Agarwal or Samantha, who would you choose and why?

but on the upside my extraction to the second one and via the pain of breaking trauma bonds I became an absolute legend ( not my words) ultra runner … running 100+ miles while in the throws of narcopath addiction led me to beat an entire field of men and women…and set a course record for a tough 24 hr … bearing in mind ..

we already had a son and he needed two to recreate his weird sociopathic family…

I wish I had got trauma counselling while the kids were small… so can emphasis this to the younger x… as in between remaining mostly single both subsequent relationships have been with snakes in clothing ( no offence to serpents those prophets of knowledge) ..

I can’t get any girl I want, but I can just get some not my type of girls, so I feel I’m so ugly. What should I do?

so I think me reaching out was timely and hopefully cathartic… any other time it could have fallen flat cause think a lot of people suppress these narcoshiteburgers… luckily for both of us it was timely… it’s all in the timing ….